Growing up, I used to be filled with insecurities and often found myself envious of those around me. I was constantly comparing myself to others and feeling like I wasn’t good enough. It was a toxic cycle that left me feeling unhappy and unfulfilled.
However, over time, I have learned some valuable lessons that have helped me overcome these negative feelings and become more confident in myself. Here is some advice that I would like to share with anyone who may be struggling with similar issues:
First and foremost, it is important to remember that everyone has their own struggles and insecurities. Just because someone may appear confident and successful on the outside, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have their own challenges to deal with. Understanding this can help take the pressure off of yourself and allow you to focus on your own personal growth.
Another important aspect of overcoming insecurity and envy is to practice self-love and self-compassion. Instead of focusing on your flaws and shortcomings, try to acknowledge your strengths and achievements. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a close friend.
Furthermore, it is essential to surround yourself with positive influences and supportive people. Seek out friends and mentors who uplift and encourage you, rather than bring you down. Being around people who believe in you can help boost your confidence and help you see your worth.
Lastly, I have found that setting realistic goals and working towards them can also help combat feelings of insecurity. By focusing on self-improvement and personal growth, you can shift your mindset from comparing yourself to others to becoming the best version of yourself.
In conclusion, overcoming insecurity and envy is a journey that takes time and effort. By practicing self-love, surrounding yourself with positive influences, and setting realistic goals, you can start to build a healthier relationship with yourself and others. Remember, you are worthy just as you are, and you deserve to embrace your uniqueness and individuality.
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remember whenever you envy someone search for something you have they don't have because in this life everybody is going through the same test level. someone could look perfect on the outside but probably have cancer. And someone could look sad on the outside but they're actually happier with no mental illness. My sister is wayy prettier than me but she struggles more because she has Borderline personality disorder . On top of that even tho she's so attractive her husband doesn't treat her right. My least attractive cousin's husband treats her the best so not everything is about looks or money like how brain washing tiktok or social media is. Most important thing is to be kind.
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i realized the reason that i’m so envious is because i’m deeply ungrateful for what I have. I don’t know when to be satisfied with myself. And I don’t know if I ever will be satisfied. My dad, in his old age, is the same way; never satisfied with what he has and is constantly comparing and looking at what other people have. I hate that I got that way of thinking from him. Trying to get over it. I absolutely adore and love my best friend, but ever since i’ve known her, which was kindergarten- now being in our senior year of high school- I’ve had a constant and consistent feeling of envy for her. if it wasn’t her wealth, it was her looks, if it wasn’t her looks then it was her relationships, if it wasn’t her relationships it was her intelligence. It’s never made me resent her, or made me wish that she struggled. It’s only made me reflect on myself more- Like damn. Now i’m unattractive AND envious? I so desperately wish these feelings would go away so I can love myself and my friends properly, but I’m scared it never will, like in my dad. Envy is such a dirty feeling.